yest was listening to FM 93.3 - 'Ying Yue Ri Ji'. the story is abt a couple who were in very gd terms in the beginning. both of them even tot they were the right person for each other and the gal already imagined herself waiting at hm for the guy with their children. the guy replied tat he will wait for tat day to come. though the gal is a career-minded woman but deep down she tinks family is still the most important. as time passed, the guy started to complain tat she didnt spare enough time for him but he never forced her to change. the gal later had to be outstationed for 6mths, both of them tot tis would be the best time to test their r/s. the gal had 100% trust for him and tot everything would be fine. it seems tat gd things dun last for them, the gal received a call frm her frd telling her tat her bf had a new gal and they were very close. the gal didnt expect it to be so serious and came back later. she found out tat they are indeed very close and are already talking abt marriage. the gal started to avoid him slowly, she was thinking the guy would not say anything or take the initiative. she finally plucked her courage and initiated a breakup. the guy was very surprised as he didnt expect her to let go so easily. he expected tat she would continue to drag on. now they are leading their own lives and she's happy he finally found his happiness. she blamed herself for not being sensitive & gentle enough to him or his needs but sincerely thanked him for giving her those moments. she tot tat she would not find another person who would love and care for her like wat he did. tis time, her company has sent her to work overseas for 3yrs. she will take tis time to recuperate and start a new life, also wish them all best.

i'm thinking how many of us would do the same like wat she has done and whether i can?